Connecting Couples Therapy
Attachment Based Couples Therapy
Windsor, CA or online anywhere in California
707-955-LMFT
Regain the spark, depth, and intimacy your love relationship deserves!
I attended the University of Washington for my undergraduate work and then in 2006 I earned a Master's of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy from Seattle Pacific University, (SPU). During this time I held a graduate assistantship facilitating an undergraduate course for Dr. Les Parrott, international speaker and New York Times #1 bestselling author. In graduate school I studied Family Systems theories and focused my work on Experiential Therapy, specifically, Dr. Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT). EFT is a clear, short-term, structured approach based on clarifying and identifying relational distress and improving adult primary attachment. EFT has over 35 years of empirical research, showing its effectiveness, with nearly 90% of couples showing dramatic improvement. Dr. Sue Johnson is the author of the book, "Hold me Tight".
I worked in a broad range of settings before becoming a licenced therapist. I worked in a university counseling center with individuals, and engaged and married couples; in a public school setting with "severely emotionally disturbed" (SED) children; in a residential group home with at-risk foster youth; and as a leader of a new parent support group for mothers and their new borns.
In 2011, I decided to go into private practice and focus on my passion, working primarily with couples. Since 2011, I have attended two professional trainings with Dr. Gordon Neufeld, "The Attachment Puzzle: Putting the Pieces Together" live with Dr. Neufeld, and "Neufeld Intensive Level 1: Making Sense of Kids" via distance learning facilitated by Transformative Parenting. Neufeld is one of the world's leading attachment theorists and experts on child development. The author of "Hold onto your Kids," Neufeld, uses attachment theory and the belief that the relationship IS the cure, as the basis for helping parents work through behavioral stuckness in their children. Because of the parallels between the parent-child relational needs and the primary-love relationship needs, I often make references to Dr. Neufeld in my work with couples, as well as when working with parents.
In 2012-2014 I attended PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples therapy) trainings with Dr. Stan Tatkin and became a certified Level 2 PACT clinician. Dr. Stan Tatkin is the author of "Wired for Love", "Relationship RX", In Each Other's Care", "Wired for Dating", "We Do", and "Baby Bomb". The PACT methodology looks at early childhood attachment and focuses on how that effects both the brain and the nervous system of partners. Using the PACT approach, I work in the moment, noticing the slight changes in affect and arousal that constantly occur within a couple, and placing a high value on experience, rather than on the cognition or analysis of events.
In my use of both EFT and PACT models, I emphasis the need for emotional containment, real intimacy and vulnerability, and a spiritual healing that comes from being more seen and more fully present within a couple relationship. I help couples experience a deeper connection through facilitating an increase in body awareness, eye-contact, and touch.
In 2019-2022 I trained with both Rachel Walker, LMFT and Colleen West, LMFT in their integrated IFS (Internal Family Systems) parts, Structural Dissociation, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), and Attachment Trauma work. This training has allowed me to work with more intense clients in a trauma informed and clinically appropriate way by stabilizing traumatized clients and supporting them in integrated healing.
I utilize elements of somatic work, attachment theory, and trauma healing, helping clients gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their emotional connections. Together, we will identify negative patterns and explore healthier ways to respond to emotions, triggers, and conflicts, cultivating lasting change and growth.
Chaela Stewart, LMFT98110
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
About Ingrid:
Ingrid Redding, LMFT147734
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
We all want to lead a life in which our life dreams and inner potential are fulfilled. Sometimes life and we, ourselves, get in the way of pursuing these dreams and potentials. As a marriage and family therapist, I can help with these challenges whether they are within your relationships, career or your inner self. I am a client-focused therapist. I work in an engaged, supportive and relational manner. I use an integrative and holistic style in my therapeutic approach and take into consideration attachment, somatic, psychodynamic and mindfulness modalities. I view the client as a whole person and pay attention to influencing factors including trauma, spirituality, sexual orientation, gender expression and identity.
After a life working in the corporate realm and public sector, I decided to switch gears and become a therapist to really make a difference in people’s lives. My aim is to support you to reach your personal goals and development whatever they may be. And if you are not sure, we can work together to figure your goals out. It takes so much courage to seek help. Thank you for taking the first step towards healing your inner self.
To schedule a free 15 minute video consultation please call, text 707-278-8553 or use the booking button.
About Tanine:
Tanine Falatoonzadeh:, AMFT138258, APCC13346
Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, Associate Professional Clinical Counselor
Supervised by Chaela Stewart, LMFT 98110
Breaking cycles and making positive changes in our lives and relationships can be difficult, but it is entirely possible with the right support. I am here to guide you through that process. I work with individuals and couples to enhance their connection and attachment within relationships through a psychodynamic and humanistic approach.
My experience spans outpatient counseling, residential treatment, and private practice, with a special focus on addiction recovery. Over the years, I have helped many people take actionable steps toward improving their lives, building self-esteem, healing unresolved trauma, and rebuilding relationships with partners, family, and loved ones.
I utilize elements of somatic work, attachment theory, and emotional intuition, helping clients gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their emotional connections. Together, we will identify negative patterns and explore healthier ways to respond to emotions, triggers, and conflicts, cultivating lasting change and growth.
To schedule a time for a free 15 minute consultation call, text 707-395-5705 or use the booking button.
About Andrea:
Andrea Blado, AMFT157663
Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
Supervised by Chaela Stewart, LMFT 98110
I work with individuals and couples from diverse backgrounds and identities who are ready to explore what lies beneath the surface. You may be experiencing anxiety, unresolved trauma, relationship distress, burnout, or feeling stuck in long-standing patterns. Together, we focus on reflection and growth to build greater clarity, connection, and resilience in your life and relationships.
I offer therapy in a compassionate, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where healing unfolds safely. I support you through life transitions, identity exploration, emotional overwhelm, and trauma, and help you and your partner repair trust, strengthen communication, and deepen emotional connection.
My approach is integrative and trauma-informed, drawing from attachment-based therapy, Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). Starting therapy can feel vulnerable, and I honor the courage it takes to begin. You do not have to navigate this process alone; I would be honored to walk alongside you toward greater clarity, connection, and resilience.
To schedule a time for a free 15 minute consultation call, text 707-395-7505 or use the booking button.
About Chaela:
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
-Antoine De Saint-Exupery
